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"Sexual health is a state of physical, emotional, mental and social well-being in relation to sexuality...for it to be attained and maintained, the rights of all persons must be respected, protected and fulfilled."

-World Health Organization

Strengthening

Sexual Response

and Pleasure

I ndependent Marriage and Family Therapist &

AASECT Certifed Sex Therapist

SEXUAL HEALTH

I am a Licensed Independent Marriage and Family Therapist and an AASECT-Certified Sex Therapist, dedicated to helping individuals and couples navigate challenges related to sexual health, intimacy, and relationships. Many people find it difficult to discuss sexual concerns. Whether you are experiencing issues with desire, arousal, orgasm, or sexual discomfort, or you’re simply seeking greater satisfaction in your relationship, my goal is to create a safe, supportive space for you to explore these concerns without judgment.

My clinical work focuses on the treatment of male and female sexual concerns, sexual dysfunctions, sexual disorders, and gender dysphoria. I also specialize in addressing the impact of medical conditions, aging, disability, gender identity and development, and relationship dynamics on sexual health and well-being.

I am committed to honoring and serving the full spectrum of human sexuality with compassion, evidence-based care, and respect. My approach is collaborative and integrative, designed to help you foster greater connection, confidence, and fulfillment in your personal and relational life.

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Do you ever feel guilty, ashamed, or embarrassed about your sexual response—or perhaps you’ve simply ignored it? You are not alone, and you don’t have to face these feelings in silence. I understand.

Throughout the lifespan, factors such as stress, trauma, anxiety, aging, medication, interpersonal experiences, and other life challenges can affect sexual response. These difficulties are common, but they can be worked through with the right support. My goal is to help you achieve the level of sexual function, intimacy, and pleasure that allows you to live a more fulfilled and confident life.

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SEX THERAPY

Sex therapy is a specialized form of psychotherapy that draws upon an array of technical interventions known to effectively treat male and female sexual dysfunction and other psychosexual conditions.

Sex therapists are trained to diagnose and treat the psychological origins of sexual issues and work to find solutions.

My goal is to strengthen your desired level of sexual function, fulfillment and pleasure that ameliorates quality of life.

SEXUAL DISCOMFORT

Inability to attain or maintain an erection fitting for intercourse
Inability to rest the vaginal muscles to perform intercourse
Pain with intercourse
Lacking or delayed ejaculation in spite of sexual stimulation
Failure to control the timing of ejaculation
Insufficient vaginal lubrication before and during intercourse

Failure to achieve orgasm
Lack of interest in or desire for sex
Inability to become aroused
Anorgasmic

SEXUALITY

Sexology research has informed us that sexuality plays a significant part in individuals quality of life, and that sexual difficulties cause both emotional and physical distress.

In my work with clients, sexuality and sexual expression are viewed through an ecological perspective that embodies not just male and female genitalia and their function, but all the dimensions of a person -biological, psychological, emotional, social, cultural, relational and spiritual.